These are the biggest friendship red flags according to the internet lol
"Always one-upping. This doesn’t refer to sharing their own story in response to yours — that’s pretty normal. It’s more about how you can never have the focus remain on you; it always becomes about them."
"Treating you differently when you’re around other people — acting embarrassed, disgusted, condescending, reserved. It happened to me personally, and it took a while for me to understand it fully, but babes, don’t stick your necks out for someone who wouldn’t even lift a pinky for you."
"When they can't keep plans consistent. If they're consistently last-minute dropping/changing plans, then it's a sign that you're their second-best option. You're their backup if nothing else is better."